New york seems good, I wouldn't call it bald eagle land if you are wanting to use firearms, as they are stricter than the rest of the nation regarding that matter.
Other than that, new york is pretty nice. Ive never been there as a resident, only a business trip that was very brief so I don't know much about it's intricacies.
There were alot more quality establishments (restaurants, cafe's, stores) than my home town, but I think this can be expected for alot of the cities.
The nature is pretty nice during the seasonal changes, though I would argue that you wouldn't be seeing much of it if you are in the city.
Wether any of my opinions hold up post covid or not, Good luck to you! Sounds like you are going through change in life. And though prematurely, Welcome to America!
imo its a pretty great nation, though I am based. I dont know what you will think living in one of the larger cities.