Find someone you work well with and build things with him/her.
Host your own server and have community builds.
Don't be a jerk because you see everyone else following that trend.
Join servers and see what they are like, if everyone is nice and cooperates well, it's a server you may want
to join again in the future.
If anyone gives you trouble, the easiest way to handle it is to leave the server.
Blockland is that game where you builds stuff, so yeah.
The majority of the blockheads around here have 0 tolerance for newbies and might ban you, insult you, make rooster jokes, etc.
USSR and MotE servers are good to visit to see impressive builds, but again, if you get harassed just leave.
Hope you enjoy the game, welcome to Blockland.