Author Topic: How to deal with starfishs?  (Read 4101 times)

Be passive about it.
Be more assertive.

Be both. Start off passive and they might stop being mean. If they don't, start being assertive.

The solution is simple, push back. Be an starfish to them if they start up, they'll stop messing with you once they get the picture that their stuff isn't going to fly with you.

Or you'll lose your friends.






Doesn't happen to me.
I hang out with a lot of girls.

But if I did, I'd just be like,

Dude, why are you such a little richard, blah blah blah.

I need help.  There are a few people who I hang out with that are complete richards to me when we are with other people.  But when it's just me and that one person, we get along great.  What the hell is going on?
Can you give me a example how they are complete richards?