Well, yeah, you can decide what/who you're into early on or just not care about anything related to that matter until your early-midteens, like me. And you can't really consider kids gay or straight until they're old enough to think for themselves(mostly) and provide for themselves. There's nothing wrong with anyone being gay, nor did I hear anything about it being a problem, so you're only defending that being gay is natural? Yeah, one determining their own loveual preference is pretty natural. I may get backlash for saying this, but that's just how I see it. Go ahead and throw wikipedia and other links at me.
as it turns out, "how you see it" is absolutely worthless, unless you're gay
you didn't decide to be straight
nobody decides to be gay, straight, bi, whatever. how could you even think that? that's what I wanna know. can you look at a couple of guys, and think "you know what? yeah. I'm into that. I wanna suck those guys' richards"?? no. and
why would anyone decide to be gay, to not be able to marry their partner, possibly to be
killed for their "decision"?
you can decide to lie, and say you decided it, but that doesn't really mean you chose to be whatever you are, does it?