I bet you neglect him. You cannot deny, sir.
I also think you don't like him very much because he "marks his territory" everywhere.
I AM ON TO YOU LIKE PAINT ON MY WAAAALLS!loljk
Me? No. Wrong.
Not only is it a girl, but I feed it every day and do the "Hand jumping" technique to train her not to jump everywhere. And she usually only craps when she's in her terrarium. If you mean the cat up there, although, then you may be right.
Also, @Otis, roaches are fine. Also grasshoppers, I have a ton around my house in fields, and she gobbles them up like cake. Only problem is, if you have live plants, Grasshoppers and roaches will eat the plants and most likely kill them.