Author Topic: Egh. Advice (If you're Tom or Have Anything Against Gays/Bis Please Don't Click)  (Read 4194 times)

Well...this is kind of awkward...and for you to understand I've go to start from the begining.
I'm biloveual, I've known for a while, so I decided to come out to one of my friends, we will call him Zak. Zak is understanding and stuff, so I came out to him first, but then my other friend, we can call her Haley, found out I had a "secret." After her bugging me for two weeks, I finnaly told her. She was OK with it, and asked me who I liked. I simply responded with the truth "I like Zak." She found it weird, but didn't really care. Next day at school, Haley tells someone, then they tell people, etc. So, Zak finds out I like him, he's ok because he knows I can't control who I like. Now, I'm having lots of trouble holding back my feelings for Zak, and I don't know what to do.
Advice/Discuss.
« Last Edit: March 13, 2009, 12:23:04 AM by :James: »

Become better friends and just hang out more. Don't get involved in stuff you will later regret. Even if "Zak" Doesn't like you in a biloveual way, you guys can still hang out more than just "friends" and still be okay. If he truely is your friend, he should come to understand.

Become better friends and just hang out more. Don't get involved in stuff you will later regret. Even if "Zak" Doesn't like you in a biloveual way, you guys can still hang out more than just "friends" and still be okay. If he truely is your friend, he should come to understand.
thats deep

Don't try to make other people gay. poor zak :C
(just a tip, if he is straight and you go all gay on him things will go bad)

Go with what Messes said.
« Last Edit: March 13, 2009, 12:46:46 AM by Valen »

Don't try to make other people gay. poor zak :C
I feel sorry for him. D:

I like Messes suggestion. But don't worry too mucha bout it. It could always be worse. You could have a crush on your girlfriend's bestfriend's boyfriend. :P

I like Messes suggestion. But don't worry too mucha bout it. It could always be worse. You could have a crush on your girlfriend's bestfriend's boyfriend. :P
That would blow (literaly) D:

I agree with Meeses. If he was accepting enough to be the first person you told, then I'm sure that, although knowing this may bother him (I know it would bother me slightly), he'll understand and live with it. Be friends with him, don't even think about trying to show your love for him, just be good friends. Trying to do anything other then that will ruin your relationship and bring bad memories.

Your 14 so trying to start a gay relationship wont get you anywere, most lilkely make you lose your friend.

Just so you're aware, you can only be loveually attracted to one love.  You can start to gradually like another love, but it's not the same kind of attraction.  And of course, this isn't fact; we don't know enough about the human mind to classify such things(although the real loveually attraction is found near your testicles), but based off of what we know, biloveuality doesn't exist.

Oh, and instead of hitting on a guy who isn't gay, hit on a guy who IS gay.

Just so you're aware, you can only be loveually attracted to one love.  You can start to gradually like another love, but it's not the same kind of attraction.  And of course, this isn't fact; we don't know enough about the human mind to classify such things(although the real loveually attraction is found near your testicles), but based off of what we know, biloveuality doesn't exist.

Oh, and instead of hitting on a guy who isn't gay, hit on a guy who IS gay.

Not proven but from what I have seen there are no old bi people, at some point they tend to pick one or the other.

The oldest bi person I've met was 23.

Not proven but from what I have seen there are no old bi people, at some point they tend to pick one or the other.

The oldest bi person I've met was 23.

I've met older. Heck, my neighbor who is 19 is Biloveual. Also, why is it that all the biloveual girls are hot -_-?

Stick it in his pooper.

I don't have anything about Bisjac