Actually, Badspot does sometimes surf servers to find people discriminating on IDs.
His sister came to the BiT server a while back. She actually almost applied :O
I on occasion will ban blockheads for one minuet with the message "change your name",
When people come to my server named "Blockhead10039" or "I HAVE NOT", I do the same thing.
[ontopic] If I were you, I suggest not going to servers to ask for help. The help section on the forums is probably more helpful, and people aren't too lazy to help you and/or won't ban you.