all marriage is, is insurance plans and bank accounts. and certain courtroom advantages to your spouse.
summed up: being married is fancy talk for bureaucratic paperwork. Thats all.
religious people misunderstand that, and think a bunch of other spiritual rights are obligated.
random traditional bullstuff they learned from a book that has no connection to modern world.
why would you feel the need to keep them standard rights from a gay man, just because YOU like god?
it dont even make sense. its pushing around your weight where it shouldn't be.