If that avatar is what you consider to be "cool" then I must say there is most probably no hope for you. Sure there are "professionals" who would have you believe that with therapy and the right meds you could be back on track to have meaningful human relations within 6 months to a year, but I see through the bullstuff. No amount of psychobrown townysis or drugs can cure your condition. The truth is, you are LAZY. There I said it, you are LAZY and most likely get a perverted thrill out of making your friends and family worried sick about you. Sure, it seems harmless enough but I know WHAT YOU ARE. You will end up hurting someone very dear to you unless YOU decide to take the initiative and own up to your faults. It has to start with you, no one else can make you be the better person. Get a job, get a life grow a set and move on. The entire world will thank you for the effort and you will see the amazing things life has to offer someone who can get off their ass and make a difference.