As much as I sympathize for the situation, real or not...To reach out to a bunch of people that have constantly proven time and time again to disbelieve and flame every personally devastating event they come across isn't the smartest thing to do. Yeah, it's fine if you PM your personal friends about it and what not, but to post it as a thread is attention whoring and ripe for ridicule. I feel sorry for your loss, but not for the consequences of this thread.
Rughugger has spoken.