I don't know how to say this without being rude, so I'm just going to be rude. Your dad shovels coal for a living and I am a goddamn professional computer programmer. I know more about this subject than your dad. Port forwarding, if done correctly, is completely safe.
wait.. I'm on wireless internet. do I need to forward my ports?
:( well... now I officially re-name this thread "How do I convince my dad to let me forward my ports?"
nope. I saw the black dots being punched in, and it was much longer than that. :\
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Does badspot have some sort of proof he's legit I can ask him to send my dad? I want him to notice it isn't dangerous... :\