Poll

When should two people get married?

18-20 years old
8 (8.6%)
21-25 years old
41 (44.1%)
26-30 years old
28 (30.1%)
31-35 years old
8 (8.6%)
36-40 years old
1 (1.1%)
41+ years old
7 (7.5%)

Total Members Voted: 93

Author Topic: What are your thoughts on marriage?  (Read 3729 times)

1. At least three years, but it's their choice.
2. I don't know, are we both out of college yet?
3. I don't care either way.
4. Neither party should have to.

i'm not going to throw my life away to keep someone happy unless they do their half
THIS
Not just conversationally, but loveually, because what's the point if one partner isn't satisfied? Mutual satisfaction is key to a long-lasting relationship.

first two i don't feel that i should dictate to other people because they would know better than i.
the last two, i do feel it's a little silly to blow all that money on a ring to symbolize something, especially considering the amount of young marriages which dissolve rather quickly. i don't care who proposes, i think either could do it.

is the poll supposed to be "when should two people get married" or is it "when is the earliest two people should get married"

I think they should be dating for the span of 1 to 2 years. I wouldn't think it would matter which love was proposing, considering times are different and woman have dominance in some relationships.

people should get married at 7

and have children at 8

tbh i can never see myself getting married. im only 16 so im obviously still incredibly immature, but even the concept of loving someone besides family members or close friends just seems...impossible. and then staying with that person for 20+ years of your life? like holy stuff dude how. i mean ive dated girls, ive liked girls, ive wanted to spend long periods of time with girls, but ive never "loved" any of them or wanted to stay in a commited relationship with them. like, the thought of being able to wake up to the same person every day and not ever get tired of them and be faithful to only them is like...beyond anything ive ever experienced. i mean, if i had kids, i would no doubt love those kids unconditionally, but the mom? i cant even imagine it dude