Okay maggots, useless spam time is over. Time to use (m)IRC !!!
How to:
Get IRC program (mIRC for exsample) and start it. After you'r satisfied with your settings type "/server quakenet" without "". Now wait till its connected and then type /j Havenandhearth.com
for short: Havenandhearth.com @ quakenet
There you can chat till your eyes pop out or world comes to an end! Irc programs are also light so you can keep it on 24/7.
edit: Everyones welcome.