Gay is NOT a loving synonym for stupid you idiot, and it is good, but you don't loving deserve to play it anyway because you are a moron, What the hell is wrong with gays? I have a couple gay friends, hell some of the blockland comunity is gay/bi, is that a problem? How does loveual preference matter?
TL;DR: This guy is a loving starfish
Children/teens don't actually attribute the word "gay" to homoloveuals in that context. To them, it is synonymous. Actually, my girlfriend says "gay" like that, and her best friends are gay. It's only considered insulting to homoloveuals by heteroloveuals for whatever reason.
HOWEVER, "gay" has multiple definitions, and they are primarily used to describe something that is good, cheery, happy, fun, or funny, so they are not correct in using the word "gay", as it is actually antonymous with something negative.