No matter the circumstances, there will always be someone afraid of dying, or someone who will mourn the loss of a loved one. Even if they are aware that death is inevitable and there is no way to prevent it permanently.
This is why I never cry in sad movies or when people die. I never have died about a death, in fact. I've always know that things die and I'll be joining the legions of dead people at some point. And will I be crying when I'm dead? No, I won't, because I can't.
I've never mourned a death. Which is why it's hard to make me sad, because I'm able to easily face the fact that it's the cycle of life.
You treat it like dying is something to be embarrassed by.
No, I'm not. I just don't want people to mourn me forever. I simply want them to get on with life and not interfere with my death. So that's why I'd prefer to die alone.