The bible describes going to heaven as you losing your memories, your thought/wants/needs/personality. You cannot look down on your fAmily and friends, and there is no reflecting on your previous life, or even having an enjoyment of being in heaven at all.
You then exist as a mindless drone to forever praise god.
If a heaven does exist, it sounds like a hell.
And would be contrary to earning a afterlife if you lost who you were anyways.
Religous people fail.
And christians don't even know any of this because they don't read the bible lol.