guys
the river was 17 tiles.
I had 30% stam when i got to the shore.
it didn't let me on for whatever reason so i panicked and lost all of my stamina, by the time i figured out the problem i was dead.
i had 12 cons lol
edit: oh and bis if you read further back it is possible for the mine to cave in under supports
but thats not what i said regardless, learn to read kthx
the land literally didn't let me on, could've been claimed, didn't check, but the last message i saw was 'you are too tired to walk'
regardless i started up a new character and am now doing better than before lol