So, as most of you know, I'm a fairly nice person, I hate resorting to fighting, arguing etc. Well, this weekend was different. Allow me to give you a bit of background; I'm very protective of my loved ones, especially the females because its the way I was raised, to protect my loved females because most men can handle themselves against other men. Well, this weekend was the winter formal dance at my girlfriends school, I attended and had a good time, there was a group of 6 of us, Myself and my girlfriend, my friend Mark and his girlfriend, and my girlfriends brother Cory and his girlfriend. Well, the dance stretched from 8 pm to 11 pm, and afterwards we all went to Marks car (he has a Cadillac Escalade) and we all changed to our street clothes except Cory and Tori (yes, that's their actual names) because they needed pictures together for Toris mom, but that's irrelevant. Anyway, we were bowling, and we were just all being couples, girls sitting on guys laps and such, well, there was this guy eyeing my girlfriend the whole night which I realized, any how, about 2 hours into bowling (we paid for 2.5 hours) my girlfriend gets a strike, she got all excited so I gave her a hug and kiss, the guy yells over 'get a room starfish' and I disregard it. Next time she rolled another strike, another hug and kiss, this time the guy yells at her 'loving slut knows how to handle her balls' so as I kiss her, I shoot him the middle finger (stick it up to him). He looks at me and is like 'get a room lovebirds' so at this point I'm fairly aggravted and I turn around and look at him and say 'Listen bro, I don't understand why you're being such a richard, but you should stop' he got up and started walking towards me taking off his jacket, I was expecting him to throw a punch so I took off my hoodie and hat and ring and he just walked past me and bumped straight into my girlfriend knocking her over onto the ground, this is when I got furious, as she hit the ground, he was right within my arms reach, so I grabbed his shoulder and turned him around (this is where I need to give you more background, I used to be a boxer as well as an MMA fighter, I was told by all my coaches that when I get into the zone my eyes turn into this flaming fury that would scare even them) so he looks at me and is like 'man you look cute' to which I say 'listen starfish, I'm seriously loving done with you, its one thing to talk stuff to us and then try and start something with me, but to knock over a girl is loving pathetic, now listen, I want you to loving walk away right now or I will take out your eye with a spoon and skull forget you' and he said 'alright then, let's go' at this point I was beyond pissed, I was ready to resort to voilence, so I put my hands up as to fight him when my girlfriend grabbed my shoulder and I went back to reality, and I just kinda sat down and was like in a stuffty mood.
So basically, the reason I'm posting this is because I feel bad for wanting to resort to violence, believe my story or not is your choice, but it happened. I needed to vent to someone about this, and get advice as to what to do next time I'm in a situation like this because when I go into a blind fury, I don't think rationally, so if you could please help me out on how to deal with starfishs like that guy, it'd be greatly appreciated.
