Poll

What technique do I do?

Ignore her
Calmly try to resolve conflict with her
Fight back verbally until she goes away
Physically attack her
walk away and mutter something while walking away

Author Topic: My sister and I get in a lot of fights.  (Read 2095 times)

Let me explain my family... My mom is a strong christian so I can't swear, punch (although im thinking of punching her), I cant shoot airsoft guns at people till im 16.... And she got divorced when i was 6. I never had a great relationship with my dad, so my relatively "weak" verbal attacks are probably because I've never had a parent to really talk to in a "manly" way.

I am middle kid, younger sister, and older... And I am only male...

grab your younger sister by the feet and swing her around in a circle, then let go so she launches into your big sister.

Get a gun and hold hes Wallet and tampoos as hostage.

Get a gun and hold hes Wallet and tampoos as hostage.
I would love to know what a "tampoo" is.

What do you guys argue about? Are you sure maybe she just doesn't have a better argument sometimes? Also every time you argue with her you should be gaining experience so you can do better the next time.

Walk out of the room, by not saying 1 thing to her. I know it might be hard, but seriously, it helps you in future arguments.

Walk out of the room, by not saying 1 thing to her. I know it might be hard, but seriously, it helps you in future arguments.
I hate people who walk out on arguments like that. But if it's her who started the argument than it might be alright.

Nitramtj, I dont know how, she is in a sense invincible. I really dont know how to do fight well... I have gone so far as to plan for over an hour just one sentence.

Did you stick it in her pooper?

write Japanese swear words/insults on her door.

I do NOT start the arguments. So what you guys are suggesting is to not speak to her? But lot's of times it is something like "its my turn on computer" she says. I can't say nothing because she will sooner or later shut down comp or tell on me.

1: Time how long each argument is for a week.

2: Add up all the times and convert to hours and minutes

3: Tell your sister how much time she's wasted within the past week arguing with you.


If you let us know what happens during a typical argument that you go through a lot (e.g on the computer) and tell us a log of what was said we can help better.