Author Topic: Rant about my parents and me using their computer - Wall of text?  (Read 5667 times)

So, if I want to do anything online, like checking mail or other things on the internet, I have to use my parent's computer, because I don't have internet on my computer in my bedroom because my parents don't trust me. I respect that, as I am only 11. Thing is, I have things like Steam on there, and if I want to play a game from Steam, then I have to use their computer. When I was playing games yesterday, my dad game in at least 5 or more times, and I asked if he wanted to go on. He said no, but I think he's trying to be nice, and just go back to whatever he was doing. So, that's hard on him. On the other hand, if I'm on there, and my mom wants to use it, then she asks nicely for me to get off. Some times, she just tells me to get off, but she doesn't go on. I don't understand why, other than she doesn't want me on there. If I ask her, she just says I don't need to be on there. The later only happens if I don't ask. If I ask, she only lets me go on to check mail. If I want to say, get a update for a game, then she gets a bit upset, but there's a 50/50 chance she'll let me go on.
If they're gone, then I just go on. I get off as soon as they are home if I'm still on. I think it's fair because I can go do something else.
Anyway, I should tell you why I'm mad.

Now, my dad says I download too much crap. I might do that, but he has 30GB+ of unused things on his computer. Anything I download goes onto my computer via a USB stick. I don't see why he gets mad. It doesn't cost anymore to download. With him, he has 1-3 torrents downloading at a time. That slows the wireless and even the main computer that which the router is based from greatly. My downloads are from 5mb to 1gb, and that's maybe once every week or so. Only about 2 out of 5 of my downloads are torrents, but I don't download torrents very much. Anyway, I asked to go on today, about 15 minutes ago, and he said "Why? To download more crap?" I wasn't. I was going to check mail. I didn't say anything, because I didn't want to get yelled at. So, I went back to my room and just waited for a bit. I came back, and I went on to check mail. I didn't ask, but my mom was in her bedroom, and I didn't want to bother her. So, as I was signing on to GMail, he came in and he got mad and he yelled at me because I'm not supposed to be downloading crap. I told him I wasn't, but he didn't say anything. I just left and went to talk to my mom. I told her what happened, and she took my father's side and said I don't need to be downloading. I told her I wasn't, and told her that he downloads more "crap" than I do. She said that she knew. Before I left, I asked if I could go on later but she said I couldn't go on for the rest of the day. I asked her why and all she said was, "Because I said so."

Well, that sucks.

I'm also typing this from my Wii and a USB Keyboard, I know, you're like "Well, can't he check his mail and do other things on there?" I can, but using the Wii to browse the internet is very tedious, so I only use it if I can't use my parent's computer.

I just needed to get this off of my chest. I know, it's a very pathetic thing to be ranting about, expecially on a forum of a block building game with the majority of users being teenagers.
« Last Edit: May 23, 2011, 01:53:38 PM by Coolio »

How come you just say when they get mad "Well mom/dad, I don't have internet on my computer..."

How come you just say when they get mad "Well mom/dad, I don't have internet on my computer..."
I don't say that. I've told them I want internet on my computer, but they don't trust me. I know, they don't want me looking at research and doing other things. I tell them I won't, but they disregard that. Even if I say I won't, I can, and it's a risk that they don't want. I understand that.

I don't say that. I've told them I want internet on my computer, but they don't trust me. I know, they don't want me looking at research and doing other things. I tell them I won't, but they disregard that. Even if I say I won't, I can, and it's a risk that they don't want. I understand that.
Well, you should recommend an internet moderating system. Yeah, I know it might stink, but you can access simple sites like, Blockland Forum, YouTube, and Hotmail.

Well, you should recommend an internet moderating system. Yeah, I know it might stink, but you can access simple sites like, Blockland Forum, YouTube, and Hotmail.
I've suggested that many times, and even if it did suck, I'd only use sites like you mentioned, and I'd still be grateful to even have internet. I asked my mom when I could have personal access to the internet, and she said I'd be lucky to have it at 18. My sister had free access to their computer that when she was 16 or so, then at 17 or 18, she got a laptop.

"Because I said so."

I hate it when parents do that. Its just a lame excuse for them to get you to do what they want.

some of this happens to me.
when everyone gets home, they all want on.
sometimes they say i cant get on because i have been on too much, when i haven't, and they are on longer then i am. after around 9:30, they refuse to let me back on for the rest of the night.
why cant they just send me to bed right when i get my computer taken away?
confusion. :C

I hate it when parents do that. Its just a lame excuse for them to get you to do what they want.
Exactly. Anything along the lines of that make me mad, and if you try to get a real reason, then they get mad at you.

you caught me when i'm piss-exhausted, so i won't provide any knowledgeable or witty statements

so i'll put it bluntly

your parents are idiots.
I've suggested that many times, and even if it did suck, I'd only use sites like you mentioned, and I'd still be grateful to even have internet. I asked my mom when I could have personal access to the internet, and she said I'd be lucky to have it at 18. My sister had free access to their computer that when she was 16 or so, then at 17 or 18, she got a laptop.

further reinforces the fact that they're idiots.


I agree with you guys, but my parents don't care what some kid on a forum says about anything.
I'm going to ask about getting internet and installing a web filter. I will post with what they say.

I talked to her. It was really quick.

I asked her if I could have internet on my computer if they installed a web filter. She just said no. I asked her why. She said that I don't need free access to the internet, and that she can't trust me. I asked her how old I would have to be to have internet, and she said, "A lot older than you are now."
It's the same thing everytime. There's no point in even asking until I'm 13.

Tell her that she has no right to interfere with your interests and/or hobbies; that is a very inconsiderate and disrespectful thing to do to your child(ren).

Tell her that she has no right to interfere with your interests and/or hobbies; that is a very inconsiderate and disrespectful thing to do to your child(ren).
What interest/hobbie is that? I'm not too sure on what you're trying to say.

What interest/hobbie is that? I'm not too sure on what you're trying to say.
Whatever you like to do on the Internet.