Were my parents judgement rightful?

[TapeDeck]

i love punishments of getting privileges and things taken away.
the logic of being forced to do something when you have nothing left to lose is laughable.

the real result to this kind of "punishment", is that you are paying for misbehavings in the future that have yet to happen, or never will.
its about this time when kids lose respect for parents to. because there isnt a lesson to be learned anymore. its an ignorant parents desperate attempt to simply upset the kid as a "revenge" act. its not about teaching anymore, its about making the parent feel better. lol

what you should do?
well if swearing is what they hate. and they are pre-punishing you;
then you owe them some filthy language. remember you have nothing to lose now. get what is owed to you.

Bisjac, you should write a self help/life coach/the world according to bisjac book.  and it should be required reading in middle school.  and high school

[Ad Bot]

[Plasmus]

nepthan is the winner here

[james4115]

Bisjac, you should write a self help/life coach/the world according to bisjac book.  and it should be required reading in middle school.  and high school

and college
and preparing for job inteviews

[TapeDeck]

and college
and preparing for job inteviews

also, one of those calenders where you peel off yesterday and the next day is underneath, and each day has a random thought/piece of advice

[Scream.]

also, one of those calenders where you peel off yesterday and the next day is underneath, and each day has a random thought/piece of advice

And fortune cookies that they sell at Panda Express

[james4115]

And fortune cookies that they sell at Panda Express

and the jokes on laffy taffy wrappers

[Narkro555]

Lol, Asian parents. So strict to the point that it annoys their children. One of my friends has a Japanese dad. Not very fun.

[Stick Man]

[Sirherg1]

what you should do?
well if swearing is what they hate. and they are pre-punishing you;
then you owe them some filthy language. remember you have nothing to lose now. get what is owed to you.

I can see where this would be headed. I understand that this would be a great way to react but all it would do is nothing more then generate more strife, anger and arguments (keeping in mind that I still live under there roof).

I am also not willing to completely disregard the standards I have set for my lifestyle just to show my Mom that I am boss. I was just seeking wether it was correct and rightful for my parents to do this or not.

[Sirherg1]

-snip-

That should be an Asian father joke.

[Acid]

My parents are similair to yours. They flip over the tiniest things and its starting to become a regular thing. I know how you feel how standing up to them can only make it worse. Even if theyre in the complete wrong they can just "punish" you and suddenly you have to be quiet. I once carried on after i got punished once but i wont tell you how that ended up because it could be bad for me and them.

[Stick Man]

That should be an Asian father joke.

[Woolys]

Show her this topic, seriously do it and tell me how red her face became.

On a side not this happens to me too. I closed a steam tab when my mother sat down beside me. And she seriously asked me what I was hiding. She then preceeded to discuss it with my dad. I saw her talking about it with him but luckily I stopped it before anything got out of hand and I explained what I was doing to her. Too bad she still questions me to this day.

-.-

[Nepthan]

Show her this topic, seriously do it and tell me how red her face became.

Better yet, record it

[Bisjac]

I am also not willing to completely disregard the standards I have set for my lifestyle just to show my Mom that I am boss. I was just seeking wether it was correct and rightful for my parents to do this or not.

its their job to prepare you for adulthood. to be a person that functions well in society and can take care of himself.
but many parents dont know WHEN to see anything more then a baby when they deal with their kids. even years later as they mature.
this quite literally means; they dont respect you.

im not saying you have to slap your mom across the face and expect her to call you sir. but jesus christ you cant just continue to fear and depend on her.
its easy to assume shes always right when you are 5 years old and need her. but part of growing up is demanding respect when it belongs there.
you arent 5 any more. rules have logic and reason to them. and its her responsibility to teach you how to decipher the logic; not just list off rules.
life isnt about memorizing good and bad. you have to grow the forget up. you are at the age where she has to teach. not tell.
if she cant do that; then she cant be trusted. and you just taking the punishment without any question is going to make you a bitch as an adult lol.