Author Topic: What is she thinking?  (Read 2762 times)

Actually, she first began chatting with me, not me with her. She was going through some rough patches in her life and she messaged me for help. I don't think I said anything to "relationship-y," I do a fair job of hiding that stuff. We just had normal chats as friends. I sent her a message asking if she was avoiding me last night, and she (ironically) has yet to respond.
Maybe she no longer needs you?

Maybe she no longer needs you?

I don't think she'd be that shallow.

I don't think she'd be that shallow.

It's a perfectly reasonable thing to do, you can use most people like tissues and just throw them out, provided you have no emotional investment there.

It's a perfectly reasonable thing to do, you can use most people like tissues and just throw them out, provided you have no emotional investment there.

I think she does have emotional investment, though. She has told me that she considers me one of her best friends and she loved getting to know me better over this summer.
I just can't figure out why she suddenly ceased contact. I guess I'll just give her a little space and let things happen when they happen.

Forget her. She's trying to make you go after her (which is obviously working). Once is enough. Don't say hi when you see her online. Ignore completely. And then when she greets you, ignore her. I always do this, and I am sucessful. I sorta made friends with some of the girls of my class which turned out to be bitches jerks. They requested me to be friends on this website and I denied. Simple.

To those people on the second and third page: Hitting puberty doesn't make you a nymphomaniac.

Forget her. She's trying to make you go after her (which is obviously working). Once is enough. Don't say hi when you see her online. Ignore completely. And then when she greets you, ignore her. I always do this, and I am sucessful. I sorta made friends with some of the girls of my class which turned out to be bitches jerks. They requested me to be friends on this website and I denied. Simple.
Successful in what? You either just never speak again or at some point you stop ignoring her.

this might seem a little weird coming from a boy, but this is kinda what i do. in the beginning of the summer, i was getting messaged by like, 5 girls almost once a day.. now only one of them messages me. i sometimes talk to her though because i notice that she's actually trying to talk to me and the other ones decided to bug off, but she's the one that kept on trying

and no i'm not even interested in a relationship so i have no idea why they were bugging me

this might seem a little weird coming from a boy, but this is kinda what i do. in the beginning of the summer, i was getting messaged by like, 5 girls almost once a day.. now only one of them messages me. i sometimes talk to her though because i notice that she's actually trying to talk to me and the other ones decided to bug off, but she's the one that kept on trying

and no i'm not even interested in a relationship so i have no idea why they were bugging me

Wow, I'm worried about what may become my first real relationship and you had bitches? Am jelly.

Successful in what? You either just never speak again or at some point you stop ignoring her.
Exactly. I'm sucessful at never talking to a certain person again.

In school just forget bitches, screw relationships. Whats the point? They only last 2 months and lead to the same stuff just in more time.

Also she doesn't want you. You were there to help her feel better then she found someone more attractive and less pale and smooth with the women. GET OVER IT. Find a new chick, except this time don't be a pansy ass and get to the point.

In school just forget bitches, screw relationships. Whats the point? They only last 2 months and lead to the same stuff just in more time.

Also she doesn't want you. You were there to help her feel better then she found someone more attractive and less pale and smooth with the women. GET OVER IT. Find a new chick, except this time don't be a pansy ass and get to the point.