this might seem a little weird coming from a boy, but this is kinda what i do. in the beginning of the summer, i was getting messaged by like, 5 girls almost once a day.. now only one of them messages me. i sometimes talk to her though because i notice that she's actually trying to talk to me and the other ones decided to bug off, but she's the one that kept on trying
and no i'm not even interested in a relationship so i have no idea why they were bugging me