Xalos, the stubborn

[jockeykiller]

You're now probably panning me from your "amazing server."
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oh crap I'm getting panned

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[Kalphiter]

By the Halls, people; if you want to make me upset, at least do it in a way which works. I couldn't care less what you think of my server. From my perspective, the greater majority of you have been banned or permabanned from my server multiple times. That doesn't exactly give you a high weight factor in my opinion brown townysis; some of you actually have a weight of zero.

You're just like the Red Queen in Alice in Wonderland. She always yelled "off with his/the head" whenever one of her flaws was pointed out or she felt threatened by another person. This character fits you. A person says something little about you, whether it be healthy or unhealthy criticism, and you go ahead and permaban them even if they don't play on your server. Guess what, just like the queen in the story, you no longer have any power. People start turning against you once they get pissed off by your attitude, deserting you, and then you end up banning them. The problem is, as I mentioned, the bans end up not being effective much like the queen's orders when her army insurrects her.

You will end up killing (banning) everyone before you're happy, even you're friends.

[Xalos]

You're now probably panning me from your "amazing server."


oh crap I'm getting panned

You're making fun of yourself, you know. Plus, I have never claimed my server is amazing. Ever.
Also, "no offense", really? That statement was engineered to be offensive.

Just because a reader makes an inference does not necessarily mean implication on the part of the author.

Plus Kalphiter is just bitching because he was telling other server members who the killers were over RTB - which as I recall he said he was going to crush.


While I'm willing to admit that I ban for reasons which make no sense, I also have to point out this happens on my bad days. On good days, I'm extremely rational and try not to ban without good reason. However, all you people see is the pissed-off Xalos who can't take a chill pill. (Yes, I see him too, because I regret what I do when I get really, really angry.)

However, what really bugs me is that you people don't know how to forgive. If there was a grudge-holding contest between the forums and an elephant, the forums would win. I, at least, forgive. Until you can learn to do that simple feat as well, I see no reason to unban you when your only act will be to bitch at me about how "Xalos is a bad host!"

Why forgive someone who won't forgive you?

[?]

If you're capable of forgiveness, then you wouldn't constantly dish out permabans.

[Headcrab Zombie]

However, what really bugs me is that you people don't know how to forgive. If there was a grudge-holding contest between the forums and an elephant, the forums would win. I, at least, forgive. Until you can learn to do that simple feat as well, I see no reason to unban you when your only act will be to bitch at me about how "Xalos is a bad host!"

There's a point where forgiving people over and over just gets stupid.
If people forgive you, and rejoin, they'll likely just get banned again during another one of your "bad days"
Having a bad day and taking it out on others is something a child does. You can't do this and expect people to want to be around you, no matter how good you are on other days

[tkepahama]

There's a point where forgiving people over and over just gets stupid.
If people forgive you, and rejoin, they'll likely just get banned again during another one of your "bad days"
Having a bad day and taking it out on others is something a child does. You can't do this and expect people to want to be around you, no matter how good you are on other days

It's the part that you don't get on the bad days, if you don't piss him off on his bad days, maybe there won't be a ban.  Simple as that.

[Headcrab Zombie]

Or even better, he could control his anger instead of being a child.
Or not host if he knows he will only make people dislike him

[N.E.G.P]

It's the part that you don't get on the bad days, if you don't piss him off on his bad days, maybe there won't be a ban.  Simple as that.

But how do I know when to be extra careful not to bother him if I don't want to be banned even if I don't purposely piss him off? Go on to the server and say. "Hia Xalos having a bad day buddy?

[tkepahama]

But how do I know when to be extra careful not to bother him if I don't want to be banned even if I don't purposely piss him off? Go on to the server and say. "Hia Xalos having a bad day buddy?

If you know what to not do and what to do (rules), then it's quite simple.

[Kill All]

But how do I know when to be extra careful not to bother him if I don't want to be banned even if I don't purposely piss him off? Go on to the server and say. "Hia Xalos having a bad day buddy?

It's like asking "Should I be stupid today or stupid another day?"

[N.E.G.P]

That answered nothing... what if I say something he doesn't like on a bad day? Im sure in the rules he does not include a list of things he dislikes. Also im not saying that I want to make him mad on purpose because of this topic.

Or even better, he could control his anger instead of being a child.
Or not host if he knows he will only make people dislike him

Also this to.

[Providence]

Bad days, 364 days a year.

[WALDO]

While I'm willing to admit that I ban for reasons which make no sense, I also have to point out this happens on my bad days. On good days, I'm extremely rational and try not to ban without good reason. However, all you people see is the pissed-off Xalos who can't take a chill pill. (Yes, I see him too, because I regret what I do when I get really, really angry.)

This is the reason why people don't like you as a host, you have anger problems and you can't deal with it without banning people. Learn to control it and more people will like you, also become less strict and ban only when needed. If you do that then these people wouldn't complain about any of this in the first place. So stop whining of us talking about it when you were the one who banned people for unneeded reasons thus this thread was born.

[jockeykiller]

You're just like the Red Queen in Alice in Wonderland. She always yelled "off with his/the head" whenever one of her flaws was pointed out or she felt threatened by another person. This character fits you. A person says something little about you, whether it be healthy or unhealthy criticism, and you go ahead and permaban them even if they don't play on your server. Guess what, just like the queen in the story, you no longer have any power. People start turning against you once they get pissed off by your attitude, deserting you, and then you end up banning them. The problem is, as I mentioned, the bans end up not being effective much like the queen's orders when her army insurrects her.

You will end up killing (banning) everyone before you're happy, even you're friends.

Oh thank you someone that actually red the book!

[Yosher]

While I'm willing to admit that I ban for reasons which make no sense, I also have to point out this happens on my bad days. On good days, I'm extremely rational and try not to ban without good reason. However, all you people see is the pissed-off Xalos who can't take a chill pill. (Yes, I see him too, because I regret what I do when I get really, really angry.)

Stop acting like a little baby girl.
You apparently seem to have 365 bad days a year, because I never see you host without banning at least 7 people.
But when you come to Cysero's server, all your anger seems to be gone and you can act normal.
Learn to control your anger. It's not our fault, but yours.

I still don't know why you can't see that.