Update;
Server is back up, I have no loving clue what was breaking it, but I got rid of a couple of mods because they just flat-out don't work. I'm seriously considering dropping down to Bukkit instead of using Tekkit, mod support and such. I'll look for some mods to incorporate the Tekkit bricks, but I make no promises. The main reason I want to do this is because for the past 4 hours I've been trying to figure out how to get creepers to not explode. There isn't a single loving mod for Tekkit that works because the versions that are compatible with it are so completely forgeted. I'm hoping to find a bunch of cool stuff to put into Bukkit if I decide to downgrade.
Sorry for the down-time and lag today folks. There might be some skipping until the 11th, because from May 9-11 the server updates.