If I had a daughter I would make her have that child because she was stupid enough to have unprotected love in the first place. Beside you don't have to kill an unborn child, you can give your baby to an orphanage and give someone who can't have kids of their own a chance.
you'd be a horrible father
"yeah so you have to have something grow inside you for 9 months and then go through immense pain and sickness to push it out. then after that you have to go through immense emotional pain and give it away - that'll teach you!"
having to get an abortion is punishment enough.
I'm not saying it's not a painful thing. I know it is.
What I am saying is that it is a big thing just to end something so big. Something that can accomplish just about anything.
You can recover from having an unprepared child. You can't recover from death. I don't care how much having a child affects you. No matter how much it affects you, it can't affect you more than being dead. Death is and always be the last say. Having a child will never reach that level.
again with the same "can accomplish anything" bullstuff logic. the environment it grows up in dictates what it can accomplish (most of the time). sure, everyone hears about the great people who come from nothing and rise up to amazing things - but all the people who don't do amazing things and end up in stuff conditions don't make headlines (that's called a confirmation bias).
if you're going to continue using that logic, you may as well go on a vendetta against people who decide to not even get pregant in the first place, because they're also denying the development of life that
might do amazing things.
