Poll

Which are you?

Public-schooled
81 (74.3%)
Home-schooled
28 (25.7%)

Total Members Voted: 109

Author Topic: Public-schooled or Home-schooled?  (Read 20578 times)


now i've actually skimmed through the topic. still not with you guys on this

yeah, home schooled kids are free to go socialize when they want. what they're still not exposed to are the social pressures every kid faces during normal schooling. you guys can't match the inevitably forming social classes that all schools eventually have. why's that important? life still has a class system, have fun being royally screwed up by not understanding the system and where you fall.

i'd also love to see the statistics of home many home schooled kids get a girlfriend/boyfriend during their schooling. i'd bet it'd be severely reduced, because the interaction is something that has to be done intentionally rather than boys just being with girls because they're your classmates. why's that important? school is where you learn how to interact with the opposite love so that by the time you're out in the world you're not a bumbling virgin who's awkward to touch someones hand or grab someone around the waist. no girl is going to think you're cute not knowing what you're doing, there are probably a 100 better looking normal guys that do.

we had 4 home schooled kids join us in our last senior year for high school. they all performed pretty well academically, so good on them. by the time we had hit that last year, the whole year was one giant group who all ate together, talked together, nobody left out - all inclusive. the 4 home schooled kids were as awkward as forget and i don't think ever made eye contact with another person, let alone talked to us.

point is, there are a lot of hard lessons you get during schooling that you're not going to be able to replicate at home unless your mummy decides to become a bully or hire a girl to flirt with you.

Point well made, good job.

I'd like to note though, as a homeschooler, or maybe just me, that having a girlfriend is not of high priority at this current stage of life.

And I could see someone who has been homeschooled their entire life being a bit awkward towards new people, I would be until I became used to them. Although not making eye contact seems a bit much, I certainly would talk and make eye contact, but usually only if they started the conversation. Or stepping into a conversation is usually a good way to introduce one's self.



I never knew that many people here were home-schooled :o

I never knew that many people here were home-schooled :o

all the people at public school were too busy being at school to post this

all the people at public school were too busy being at school to post this

im sick so i get to stay home and do nothing woo
« Last Edit: September 27, 2012, 04:09:23 PM by BanishedLetters »

Point well made, good job.

I'd like to note though, as a homeschooler, or maybe just me, that having a girlfriend is not of high priority at this current stage of life.
it's not for many people until school makes it one. why do 10-13 year olds date at school? it's not because they're lusting after someone, it's because the social pressures push them towards it. cool kids have boy/girlfriends, that flows on to other kids wanting boy/girlfriends

Public school. I don't fit any of the examples in the OP.

I was homeschooled, then I was institutionalized, then I went to public school, and I have no problem socially.


it's not for many people until school makes it one. why do 10-13 year olds date at school? it's not because they're lusting after someone, it's because the social pressures push them towards it. cool kids have boy/girlfriends, that flows on to other kids wanting boy/girlfriends
I'm homechooled, I have a girlfriend, I've had about two others in the past.

What now?

public school
but i would much rather be home schooled. the schools here suck.

I'm homechooled, I have a girlfriend, I've had about two others in the past.

What now?
now you read my post again and realize that i've never said 'no home schooled kid would have a girlfriend'