Poll

Drama.

AAAAAAAA (no.)
17 (43.6%)
Meh sure. Part of life.
13 (33.3%)
I am a drama QUEEN.
9 (23.1%)

Total Members Voted: 39

Author Topic: Do You Actually... ENJOY Drama  (Read 2113 times)


THE QUESTION:
Can one ENJOY drama, and all that surrounds it?
What is to be enjoyed? What is to be shied from?
Post your thoughts.


The question occurred to me while doing what I call my "stuff posts." While admittedly I can stuffpost, I use the term loosely and literally: I only view drama, on the stuffter. What better place? I mean, for all intensive purposes, its a pile of stuff. I can't remember for the life of me where I heard this, but someone said something along the lines of "People on the Internet are so horrible, if they see something they don't like, rather than avoid it, they make a big deal about it. It's like walking down the road and finding a pile of stuff. Rather than walk around, you jump up and down, pointing and screaming at it, rolling around in it, and just make a mess of everything."

Personally, I find drama to be a good tool, as well as being similar to driving. If your about to reach a speed trap, and the driver heading your way flashes you his lights: he's tipping you off. This is valuable information. Should you be speeding? Well no, but... Should you speed in front of a cop? No. At the same time, you can't instantly trust everyone. There are mistakes, and there are fakes. You have to understand and asses the situation well enough to make your own decision.

But that's just me. So what's your take on drama? Worthless? Worth-something? Post it.

Forgive any type error, I'm mobile ATM and its 2:05 am, and google chrome literally got the worst update ever, I can hardly type, and correcting is a bitch.



No.
There's an option for that.
It comes with fries and a nice side of colesl- drama

this forum loves drama

Yeah, I think drama is hilarious.

Yeah, I think drama is hilarious.
that implies that you only laugh at it, and don't participate, but I'm sure that's not actually what you meant

On the forums, no.
In real life, yes.



Somewhat. Drama makes things relatively interesting, sometimes watching others peoples Drama is a good laugh, having your own drama however could change your view on life.

if drama is shooting everyone in the loving face with sledge's shotgun in one hand and a slagga in the other.

then forget yes.

if its jersey shore.

oh hell to the loving no.

I avoid drama in school at all costs

Forums: Occasionally go through it and post a few times

Real Life: loving no

On the forums it can really vary from topic to topic.

Some are just pathetic, some are entirely unnecessary, some are overly harsh, some are humorous (for a number of reasons) and some are quite justly made.

Some of the pathetic ones (Like this guy banned me from his server the moment I joined) are simply boring and annoying. They have no use and are whinging over something incredibly unimportant. That's Dramas where people complain that some random person has made a tiny random slight against them, so they waste their time making a Drama instead of just carrying on.
Or they're the ones where someone posts 2 lines saying "x did something bad, ban him forever and never admin", and they never give any information on the person, or what they really did, or any evidence of it, and sometimes not even the persons ID. They're pathetically unhelpful.

The unnecessary ones (like the 5 or 6 that appear anytime someone spams the forums) are, as the name implies, unnecessary. There's nothing helpful about them and they often just add to the stuffpile that forms when someone starts mass-spamming.

The overly harsh ones can be upsetting, where someone goes full-blown mental over another person for a slight reason, or an argument turns into petty insults being thrown back and forth.
I personally don't see how you can enjoy that, but obviously some people do. I suppose it's a bit like the big group at a school that forms around two weaklings having a "fight".

Then the humorous ones are entertaining for how funny they can be. That might be that the OP has done something ridiculous, or made a fool of themselves. Or the Drama is about something entertaining.
The Drama might not succeed in anything, but it's fun to watch and maybe join in.
Or it can be things like Badspot's Mailbag, which are often hilarious.

And then you get just ones, which are exceedingly helpful. Whether it causes some sort of forum paranoia or not, who doesn't want to know of a prevalent "hacker" in the community, or a thief or liar?
It's nice to have a warning system in place, and if lots of people agree that there's a troublesome member around, then it helps others.

I'll also admit that there is a pretty good feeling in knowing that you've "bested" someone in the Drama section.
Whether that's turning around a Drama on someone who deserves it, or convincing someone their argument is flawed, or defending yourself from an attack and succeeding, or delivering a successful drama against someone.

As petty as it sounds, the Drama board can act as a form of online gladiatoral arena. And who doesn't want to win in one of those? It's better than losing.