I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

[RedGajin]

Pretty bad ones too. Honestly I'm just pretty mad about it now but jesus christ bitches are crazy, key factor to remember in your life.

Anyway, I've been single for a little while now, like a couple months-ish, and at about halfway through last month, I start talking to this girl and about a week later, we are pretty much in it with each other. We dont like hold hands and kiss at school and stuff but we hang out and talk a bunch and its pretty obv something is going on. Now this girl is like a solid 7/7.5, shes like mixed race, not black but like one of those weird asian islands and white. Anyway, seems pretty normal, cute, fun to be around, I see now problem with whats going on. About 2 weeks later, one of my female friends who is in this chicks friend circle texts me telling me NOT to hook up with her. And this is where stuff gets heavy right now son.

She's got a boyfriend away at some like bootcamp, not military but like rehab or something.

I am just about ready to go over and slap that bitch I mean what the forget, she couldnt have TOLD me this was going on? I mean I may not be the best guy in the world, but holy stuff I'm not one to just go on and be stealing some guys girl like that, thats just not right, y'know? So I'm ready to go over there and ask her what in the hell she was thinking, running me around like that. But holy damn I remember something that complicates things like stuff. About 5 days before that she kind of just like had some problems that caused her to get real emotional, and basically I was comforting her and she was obv very comfortable with me and told me she had tried to kill herself, had to get her stomach pumped, whole deal.

brother this stuff is so loving heavy I am about to break, so I'm like wtf do I do, I mean she is suicidal (potentially idk), and I'm not like a richard or anything so I'm kind of lost. But basically, I told her that I was just not ok with the whole cheating thing, I tried to do it so I wasnt like making her feel horrible, but I'm hoping everything goes good and she doesnt do anything too drastic.
Anyways, you all probably got something on your mind, maybe something you aren't too proud of, whatever. Discuss that or just bad decisions you've made, whatever your feeling right now.

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[danisaac5]

Heh im just a clumsy piece of stuff, but you should just stay good friends with the girl who tried to kill herself cause like you say, your not the one who steals guy's girls. Plus the asian girl sounds nice.

[Tokerovin]

Friend-zone yourself.

It's the only thing you can do.

Also,

[DrenDran]

You should have made her feel bad for cheating.
I know youre trying to be nice to her, and thats good, but it just tells women that its okay to cheat.

[danisaac5]

Friend-zone yourself.

It's the only thing you can do.

Also, -trapsnip-

Also this, but with the girl with the guy at bootcamp, not the Asian girl.

[sir dooble]

Also this, but with the girl with the guy at bootcamp, not the Asian girl.

Uhh, I think Red was describing the girl he's going out with as being Asian in descent.
He didn't describe any other girls in there (beyond saying he has a friend who is also friends with his girlfriend).

Unless I'm completely mistaken, the "asian girl" is the problem girl.

[BuildaBox]

Ya brother u gotta get high on dat kush firs then u gotta get up in that ho bitch's face and say "niggggaaaaaa y u pullin my stuff out my ass brother"

[Tokerovin]

Ya brother u gotta get high on dat kush firs then u gotta get up in that ho bitch's face and say "niggggaaaaaa y u pullin my stuff out my ass brother"

Quoted for truth.

[crunk.com]

Friend-zone

kindly set yourself on fire :-)

[.Atlas]

Wats guud mah niggggaaaaa

[blueblur121]

Wats guud mah niggggaaaaa

Have you ever tried gizoogle?

[epicbat3]

What a whore.

[AdinX]

Women don't HAVE to forget you, really hate to say it. If she grabs your richard and asks you to mash, yeah she's a whore. Otherwise telling her you don't wanna hook up is waaaaay too out of it for her. "obv. Something is going on."

Obvious is when they flat out tell you. You don't KNOW she wants you in her pants, and for all you know she could just want to have a good guy friend who she can trust. She came out and told you he was suicidal, which is an astronomically big deal, and you told her you didn't wanna cheat somewhere in the convo.

What.
How.
If she said something like "let's forget, love always makes me feel better." then yes, leave, go ahead, but telling a suicidal person you don't wanna cheat is inadvertently calling her a slut. That's not gonna help that whole Self Delete deal.

That's just my 2 cents.

[Hiiro326]

you're 15, everybody cheats
what's the problem? i'm pretty sure you've even said relationships that young are stupid, right?

[RedGajin]

you're 15, everybody cheats
what's the problem? i'm pretty sure you've even said relationships that young are stupid, right?

In the whole "wow im in love we're gonna get married" sense, yeah very much so. In my opinion, relationships in highschool are just deeper friendships, you like spending time with your female friend, you want to spend more time with said female friend at a deeper level and with the possibility of admittance to her nether regions. Win-win for both sides. Its just that I still have standards you know? I'm above going out of my way to steal some guys (i dont even know the guy btw) girlfriend. Plus it would give me a bad rep which is never bueno.

You should have made her feel bad for cheating.
I know youre trying to be nice to her, and thats good, but it just tells women that its okay to cheat.

I already told he that it was pretty messed up cheating on her boyfriend and all that jazz, I just didn't totally flip on her or anything.