So this basically shows you know squat about losing a parent
If you did, you wouldn't be offering stuffty advice that, if heeded, would make freek's life even worse.
really?
I know nothing about losing a parent?
How about this you inconsiderate forget, I've lost both of my birth parents, you think I go to school and start punching kids in the face and crying in a corner because of that? No. I realize they died and there's jack stuff I can do about it, why the forget should I cry or be angry over something I can never change, over people I'll never see again.
And you know this really shocking thing? I love my life, I wouldn't change anything about it.
Do I think about my parents from time to time? Hell yeah I do, do I get sad or mad over it? No.