I'm 99.178.174.198. I live in Raleigh NC, USA. If you fly over here then I will talk to you about the failings of Torque for an hour.
EDIT: Oh, wait, right. My IP address changed at some point and I'm too lazy to Google it. Ah well, my point is nothing about that is in any way private or hard to access. Hell, just TRY to join my server. You don't even have to actually get a connection. Or have me join your server. Or talk to Ephi. Or Big Bro. Or Kalphiter.