If you honestly think that's the only thing in a relationship then you're quite a sad person.
i loving love loser logic; "if you guys think love is important you obs dont understand TRUE LOVE"
its like you guys are such fedora-wearing neckbeards that you think you've somehow transcended 4 billion years of evolutionary programming and have discovered some kind of spiritual super love.
if you're like under 30 and love isn't something you consider when going into a relationship, then you're not healthy enough for a relationship. more often than not you're just a co-dependent emotional cripple that desperately needs companionship simply because they're fantastically lonely. love is the very engine of evolution and human courting practices are the reason that we're intelligent beings today. to try and posit that courting for its own sake is somehow more pure or noble than the act that courting exists for is as absolutely ridiculous as it is pretentious.