Author Topic: let's be cool guys  (Read 4032 times)

you must rape your friend to claim him as your property

then all of his property will also belong to you, including the girl
expert advice right here

Sometimes i feel like I'm a jack of all trades, but an ace at none: i can draw, but to an extent, i can run quite a while, but not as fast, I'm good at organizing, only to hate it for no reason, etc...

help me :(

like, irl or on the internet?

Internet

if it was irl I would've done something about it by now. it's the same 3 or 4 people but they just keep going on and on and on..... after awhile it actually does start to upset me.. usually I wouldn't let some stuffhead on the Internet tell me to kill myself and let it get to me, but this is coming from people I trusted before. but if I say anything the situation will worsen and I'm hoping it'll just resolve itself

what worked for me making friends was this:
be yourself, dont care what others think of you, and just try to be as confident as possible

it probably sounds hard doing that since i imagine a lot of you are probably rly shy, or rly shut in and theres nothing wrong with that, but sometimes to get the things you want you have to get out of your comfort zone, and it usually pays off

before high school, i never did anything. i never went out, i never tried to talk to ppl, i just let things come to me without putting in any effort. when i left 8th grade i learned that thats not gonna cut it forever, so all summer i tried getting used to those three things, and within my first week of high school i was friends with like, every upper classmen at my school. now i was the one being asked to go out to places, i was the one ppl called to hang out with... although i still wasn't doing all that much. that didnt kick in till 10th grade which was probably my most intense year ;)

i at least had a reliable clique of friends that i could turn to and thats something i think everyone needs

sometimes u just gotta take a risk :) 
Internet

if it was irl I would've done something about it by now. it's the same 3 or 4 people but they just keep going on and on and on..... after awhile it actually does start to upset me.. usually I wouldn't let some stuffhead on the Internet tell me to kill myself and let it get to me, but this is coming from people I trusted before. but if I say anything the situation will worsen and I'm hoping it'll just resolve itself
id imagine having people you trust turn on you like that is an awful thing. while i believe people can change, if they seriously try to get people to kill themselves over the internet and cant admit that its an starfish thing to do, just forget them. unless they're willing to apologize and at least let you know they're sorry theres no use. you dont even have to say anything, just block them and let it go


Same as my response to F3d, just count to 3 and say "yo what's up?" or something along those lines. people who think that when someone says hi to them without knowing them is weird then they aren't in the right mind IMO.
what worked for me making friends was this:
be yourself, dont care what others think of you, and just try to be as confident as possible

it probably sounds hard doing that since i imagine a lot of you are probably rly shy, or rly shut in and theres nothing wrong with that, but sometimes to get the things you want you have to get out of your comfort zone, and it usually pays off


That is really great advice, thanks you guys.


I have no friends,and cant make any friends until I move (hopefully soon) because everyone in my town is a jackass

because everyone in my town is a jackass
i have personal experience with this excuse and it's bs

i have personal experience with this excuse and it's bs
I'm serious though, it's a bit hard to explain. Obviously everyone isn't a jackass but it's not really worth it to find someone who isn't.

I'm serious though, it's a bit hard to explain. Obviously everyone isn't a jackass but it's not really worth it to find someone who isn't.
it is worth it

People are only jackasses if you make them out to be

I got into college today
I start in September.
It's in North Carolina

I got into college today
I start in September.
It's in North Carolina
And...?

I mean that's great and all but what's your point?

Why do y'all have such a hard time making friends? Just be nice and friendly towards people; with enough time, it pays off.

My friends dislike me and they don't even know it

And...?

I mean that's great and all but what's your point?

Why do y'all have such a hard time making friends? Just be nice and friendly towards people; with enough time, it pays off.
listen here u lil turd
this is a thread where we can talk about things that are on our minds
so why dont you stop being an starfish and say congrats or something instead of your post, which actually has no point