in a car wreck you are more likely to survive but that doesn't change the fact that you are more likely to die in general
you sure about that? I can't find any numbers for how many flights are made a year, nor how many times people drive a year, but I imagine there are significantly more drives taken than flights
I can however find out how many cars exist
so, about 250,844,644 cars are in the US according to the EPA
and yahoo answers is surely not a great source for this information but it's the best I can find, but the FFA probably is. so, 273,873 planes in the US
that ends up being about 0.021 crashes per car in the US
but unless I messed something up, it looks like 0.0006 crashes per plane in the US. I probably did mess something up along the way but for now, seems like you're right I guess
still, nothing wrong with being afraid