alot of times hosts want to be alone, like when I put, nothing, no joining in my server name and people join.
not to mention people get pissed to the point of banning the innocent when waves of noobs swarm in and say(real conversatoin):
rky:hi
otherguyforgot name:hi
2 secs of silence
otherguy: can I be admin
rky: no
otherguy: i have a city
rky:...so?
otherguy: fine your missing out on a city and other cool stuff
rky: like I dont already have like nine cities?
otherguy leaves
or the never forgetful
guy joins
guy: can I have admin?
admin: no
guy: why not?
or the annoying
guy joins
guy: THIS IS NOT YOUR SERVER!!!
admin: wtf?
guy: THIS ISNT YOUR SERVER!!!
admin : this isnt who's server?
guy: THIS ISNT YOUR SERVER!!!!
guy requests full trust
rejection~
guy leaves
all of these have happened to me... within about 5 minutes.