Author Topic: how would you evaluate yourself?  (Read 4896 times)

internet friends on steam

that's what i do
id rather not
my friends dont like when i rant to them :(

w-what

char you're a buttloving amazing artist. srs i would want you to illustrate a book for me, if i ever finished one.

might have something to do with the "underestimating myself" thing

people are holding you to a standard, that's true. They're holding you to a standard that they know you can achieve. If you weren't actually smart, people wouldn't have high expectations for you. Always remember too, intelligence is relative.

But this doesn't.
It's not that, it's just that they think I'm more intelligent than I really am.
My classmates, my friends, my parents too.
It's like in the past I exceeded their expectations of what I would be like, and now they've set it unrealistically high.

I don't know how to explain it, but it's just...

so sorry about that
No reason to be. This is the place for it.

a weed smoking friend degenerate that will murder you with a spoon for dinner rolls

My mental capacity for science is enormous.

I've always been unusually smart my entire life.  When I was in second grade, the kids in my grade were reading Captain Underpants.  I was reading meteorology textbooks that were over and inch thick.....cover to cover....and understanding every word of it.....

I'm way too quiet, and probably come across as unfriendly in real life.

I have very little to no self esteem.

I forget things a lot.

I become obsessed over some things, and get flustered when certain things that I've done for a long time are interrupted.  Best example is my absence from Blockland due to data shortage.  Been around for five years and now I can't use it.


Bad:

  • Boring to talk to (Not a lot to talk to me about like Movies, Music, TV shows because I dont watch a lot of movies or TV shows and I am really only big into metal. Plus since I went to a really small Christian school through 8th I didnt have a lot of great social skills when I go into high school. This has been my biggest struggle)
  • I dont stick with anything. I always become interested in something and then lose interest. I have nothing I really do regularly or well
  • When someone makes fun of me I tend to hold a strong grudge and go after them any chance I get
  • I often dont think outside the reality box. So not too creative with solutions to things
  • I procrastinate too much
  • I used to be embarrassed to apologize because my dad is that way but I've manned up and I accept that I am wrong and apologize
  • I'm too afraid and self conscious to talk to people so I don't have a "best" friend really. No one I can really talk to but my dad

Good:

  • If the subject is general Im easy to get along with and to talk too
  • Very loyal and trustworthy
  • Decently funny. I know how to make people laugh
  • Pretty smart and passionate about constructions and fitness
  • Willing to try my best and fail
  • I know what my faults are and I actively work on fixing them
  • I'm willing to help other in whatever way I can
  • I dont like to stereotype at school and I'm "friends" with everyone
  • I have argued way less with my parents and have learned to control my anger pretty well

Even here on the forums I dont have any real friend beside IRL friends. I'm not close to anyone here because I suck at conversations.

By the way everyone can learn something from the art of manliness which has helped me a ton
« Last Edit: April 23, 2014, 12:23:29 PM by SlayerZ99 »

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oh and if we're taking that personality test thing we had to take it for our school's college counseling office so that they'd get to know us before meeting with us, i got ISTJ. I, T and J were very decided but S and N were pretty close.

and i have that apologies problem too except i guess it might be an instinctual fear of showing weakness or something like that. i just find it awful to have to apologize and so i try not to make serious mistakes that will arouse need for major apologies, which leads to some tentativeness to do some things
« Last Edit: April 22, 2014, 11:06:04 PM by Placid »



You're bads are almost identical to mine.

Exceptions being the second, third, and the apologies one.  I still don't really apologize even when I am sincerely sorry just cause it's hard for me to do so.  If I bump into someone while walking, I'll say a passing "sorry" but in a emotional setting, I just can't do it.

You're bads are almost identical to mine.

Exceptions being the second, third, and the apologies one.  I still don't really apologize even when I am sincerely sorry just cause it's hard for me to do so.  If I bump into someone while walking, I'll say a passing "sorry" but in a emotional setting, I just can't do it.
I've struggled with that heavily too

I really just tell myself "Yeah I messed up and I'm wrong and it will be 100% better if I apologize"

not saying the thing you did is excused but you'll feel better and the person you wronged will probably feel better too


ProTip: If I back out of a fight on the Blockland Forums it means that I know I lost or have no good comebacks (Just so you guys can use this against me ;) )

also another bad thing about myself is I'm a quoted whensomething goes wrong or bad and I can restart it

ProTip: If I back out of a fight on the Blockland Forums it means that I know I lost or have no good comebacks (Just so you guys can use this against me ;) )

If I'm overwhelmed in a battle where I'm on a side by myself, I'll just shut up for the night and wait for people to cool down.  If the topic is still alive the next day, I'll jump back in.  Otherwise, I'll just forget about it.

guys how 2 be more social

like in conversations

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Im kinda like this accept without the quiet and perfectionist part