?????????????????what. why
in a very short span of time you started doing a bunch of things that i hadn't seen you do before or thought that you would end up doing before
the frontmost thing is the whole 'actually i am not classifiable as the gender binary thing and i would like you to respect that' thing which is basically a big red flag labeled "I SPEND A LOT OF TIME HANGING OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE EXTREMELY ACTIVE ON THE SOCIAL JUSTICE SCENE AND THAT PROBABLY JUST MEANS THEY SIT AROUND ON TUMBLR ALL DAY", and the whole ??????talking like this???? thing just supports that theory because that's a writing style very typical of that group of people
actually, why are you even being so defensive about this? nobody's forgetin assaulting you for your weird life choices, we're just noting that they
are weird life choices. like nobody is actually disagreeing with your right to do so we just think its strange