but the point im trying to convey here is that tumblr degrades what people actually feel about these things and reduce them to jokes so they can feel like special snowflakes. it happens all the time and is definitely a problem there.
While I agree with this....
tumblr made up this bullstuff loveuality called demiloveuality where "you do not feel loveual attraction until you are in a relationship or deep emotional bond with the person."\
"i'm a gray aloveual! that means i only feel loveual attraction sometimes, which completely contradicts the aloveuality part!"
man it feels good to vent about tumblr.
The way you word it makes it sound like you don't think that there is an aloveuality spectrum.
Gray-aloveuality is not a contradiction. People who are gray-aloveuals don't feel loveual attraction either as strongly as alloloveuals or very often. I don't see how that contradicts with itself, because if you say you are "partially aloveual," you are essentially saying that.
Demiloveuality isn't bullstuff, again.
also the wage gap exists but i'm not getting into this argument again because holy stuff i have a loving life to attend to
