but do they really need an entire movement focused entirely on women still? the 'ban bossy' campaign went viral at the same time that boys were doing way worse than girls in every faucet of education. don't you think it's about time they stopped pretending to care about equality and actually actively work towards equality?
I still will disagree with the idea that feminism is (currently) soley about women. I see it more as, again, empowering feminity. I'll probably elaborate what I mean by that later.
As for activism, I honestly think what's mainstream is fine. You just seem to focus in on powerless idiots on Tumblr or feminists who burn down schools, it seems. They also seem to be your motivation in identifying as an egalitarian, no?
The main reason I don't like the label (the idea is fine) of egalitarianism is that having it as a replacement for feminism implies that masculinity is also considered wrong by society and that there isn't a patriarchy. If you believe that, fine, but men are definitely affected negatively by a patriarchy in different ways than women.
i really dont think that definition applies anymore
It never applied. The idea that feminism is about equal rights is true, to an extent. And not in the way you think I mean. I see feminism as more of a belief that there is a patriarchy that negatively affects society. And equal rights is a way to destroy it.
Also realize that feminism is a social movement. People will interpret the idea in a thousand ways.