why do people feel the need to 'come out' with their religious or loveual views?
my family is religious, but I never felt the need to tell them I felt otherwise. i think leaving it alone is best, unless you are in a situation where you feel you must address it. (i.e. forced church, but even then...think of it as family time?) anyways it will just distress them, so you better be sure it's worth it.