but even then...think of it as family time?
Sitting quitly in a room and listening to some dude I don't/barely know tell the same story I've heard 20+ times isn't "family time" to me
Family time would be when my family actually gets to talk
with each otherwhy do people feel the need to 'come out' with their religious or loveual views?
Well religion is something completely different (op probably only used the phrase "came out" for lack of a better term) but with loveuality, for example, it's kind of
impossible to convince people that the guy you're living together with in a one bedroom apartment/house with only one bed is "just a friend"
Even in general, being secretive about it means you have to introduce the person as just a friend (which some people don't like being on the receiving end of at all), being very secretive and quite of everything, probably won't be able to involve them in as many family matters, etc
And some people just don't like keeping secrets from their family