Author Topic: Instantly bashed by Brickman  (Read 7821 times)

why are you defending his starfishry?
because i don't feel like he's being an starfish, and because everyone who's posted in this thread has made plenty of jokes at the expense of others, but are putting on this facade of being morally opposed to it.

we're getting all wrapped up in the concept but what actually happened is that brickman said he didn't like myst, and that cod is better, and then myst says that cod is terrible, and they get into an argument.

even if it warrants a drama, it certainly seems.. petty

Don't know where all the talk of trolling came from, whatever.
You're an idiot to think that just randomly picking on someone for the sake of a handicapped in-joke when the victim was clearly not okay with it is funny.

it lasted for about 5 - 10 minutes with pauses in between.
I think that was too long, considering myst made statements like "like i dont understand why im being bashed so much".

Fair enough, it was an innocent joke. I've made jokes before about players names when they join, not to be mean at them, but just as a general joke between friends.
But, as far as I believe, it was apparent that myst wasn't picking up on it being a joke and was getting upset.
At that point I think you probably should've let him know you were just joking.


There's no real harm done, and I think both sides could probably come to understand each other and forgive and forget.
myst has to learn to not take things so personally (and if you are getting distressed by people then just leave, before you get too angry).
And Brickman could learn that sometimes jokes go over people's heads, and that it's best to let them know you're being jokey and mean no harm, especially if they seem to be taking offense or getting upset by the joke.


As a note to others in this topic, can we not start throwing the trolling card in, claiming people should be banned.
Trolling at it's most innocent is joking. If a joke is at someone's expense, that's trolling. But it doesn't make it inherintly wrong.

It's bannable on these forums because people have used it as an excuse for their poor behaviour.
And at times it goes too far, such as cases where you're actively causing arguments and harassing others just to get a response from them.

Just be careful with the word. It can mean more than one thing, and it's presence doesn't warrant a call to arms.

thats really lame of brickman and twente

thats really lame of brickman and twente
this is such a good way of putting things

it's pretty lame i'll admit that they coulda been more topical and indie

same thing happened to me the other day except a different user

not gonna say who though but you know who you are

ya id expect this sort of thing from twentefreak since hes always messing around but idk about brickman, he was p cool to me on jirue's server

Don't know where all the talk of trolling came from, whatever.
You're an idiot to think that just randomly picking on someone for the sake of a handicapped in-joke when the victim was clearly not okay with it is funny.
You obviously weren't the audience and Myst got offended over nothing intentional.
I don't even understand why this is a topic when Myst could have just confronted me over a PM or something instead of complaining about what turned out to be a misunderstanding to the entire forums. Clearly the issue is between me, and Myst.
I think that was too long, considering myst made statements like "like i dont understand why im being bashed so much".

Fair enough, it was an innocent joke. I've made jokes before about players names when they join, not to be mean at them, but just as a general joke between friends.
But, as far as I believe, it was apparent that myst wasn't picking up on it being a joke and was getting upset.
At that point I think you probably should've let him know you were just joking.


There's no real harm done, and I think both sides could probably come to understand each other and forgive and forget.
myst has to learn to not take things so personally (and if you are getting distressed by people then just leave, before you get too angry).
And Brickman could learn that sometimes jokes go over people's heads, and that it's best to let them know you're being jokey and mean no harm, especially if they seem to be taking offense or getting upset by the joke.


As a note to others in this topic, can we not start throwing the trolling card in, claiming people should be banned.
Trolling at it's most innocent is joking. If a joke is at someone's expense, that's trolling. But it doesn't make it inherintly wrong.

It's bannable on these forums because people have used it as an excuse for their poor behaviour.
And at times it goes too far, such as cases where you're actively causing arguments and harassing others just to get a response from them.

Just be careful with the word. It can mean more than one thing, and it's presence doesn't warrant a call to arms.
I agree with everything in this post. I should mention, I genuinely didn't think Myst was so angry or offended while me and twente were joking, even though Myst clued in that he was I still figured it wasn't a big deal and that I would just keep the joke going between me and twente instead of let him in on it and kill any humor we were getting out of it. If I knew he was so offended that he would actually lose respect in me and make a drama topic then I would have let him in on it (and not just to save my face from being the subject of a drama topic).

I know now that Myst was sensitive to my joke and I should have told him sooner that I wasn't being serious, so I apologize now for not letting him in on it sooner.
ya id expect this sort of thing from twentefreak since hes always messing around but idk about brickman, he was p cool to me on jirue's server
Please realize that this was meant to be a harmless joke. Unless it's a joke, I tend not to insult people that I have no reason to. I believe that this should have been settled over private messages first before escelading to a drama topic

i understand brickman. i just have played with you before and in the past and you were pretty cool

i just didnt expect this to come about

sure he was probably joking with you, and you found it insulting,
but this happens to me all the time and I don't even find it remotely close to being drama worthy.
it doesn't even bother me enough lol

did it really bother you THAT much?

trolling or not, it lasted like 5 minutes.
and if it was trolling, it was hilariously bad

i understand brickman. i just have played with you before and in the past and you were pretty cool

i just didnt expect this to come about
I think we've both come to an understanding. I hope to regain your respect and have no hard feelings between us from now on, if you're willing.

I don't even understand why this is a topic when Myst could have just confronted me over a PM or something instead of complaining about what turned out to be a misunderstanding to the entire forums. Clearly the issue is between me, and Myst.
Hey, welcome to drama.

it wasnt much of a misunderstanding, i just didnt understand why i was suddenly being picked on by a guy ive played with before and had an okay time with and it genuinely made me feel bad is why.

it wasnt much of a misunderstanding, i just didnt understand why i was suddenly being picked on by a guy ive played with before and had an okay time with and it genuinely made me feel bad is why.
the misunderstanding came from me not knowing you would be offended and you not knowing i was joking. I'm sorry.