Qwepir was looking for a fight the moment he thought he'd try to act cool by insulting and personally attacking people who like/dislike different things than him. He always does this. I wonder sometimes if he just hates me. Regardless, his behavior is something to be regarded with contempt.
Yes, for a variety of reasons. Awful episodic pacing, nonsensical plot lines, clear abhorrent deviations from existing canon.
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Bernd Schreier does a much better job summing it all up than I.
#10 is bullcrap; T'Pol has been injured and irradiated many times. How about the time she became addicted to the dangerous substance they were coating the ship with during the Xindi mission to protect the ship from the spatial distortions in the region. Obviously there are some things she will have immunity to that the human crew members did not; she's shown as well quite often that she's not invincible. Jolene Blalock did an excellent job portraying her.
There have been many times in all the other series where vulcans such as Tuvok or Spock have said they can withstand harsher environments for the sake of doing missions for the weaker crew members. So, 10 is moot.
#9, I don't even see how that's an issue. Odo contemplated many times to leave DS9 to join the Founders, but he decided to stay aboard. Worf, there've been tons of times where he wanted to leave Starfleet, and was offered to do so by people such as Gowron (DS9 the way of the warrior), but he decided to stay as well. This kind of plot element has happened across all the series. There is nothing unique about it.
#8 Archer pisses off the klingons? Lol. EVERY starfleet captain has pissed off the klingons at one point or another. Kirk vs Kor, Sisko vs Gowron. I could go on all day. Besides, for Humans in that day and age to not know how to appropriately treat Klingons is expected.
#7, almost every other star trek series has seen the ship's crews using various methods to track cloak ships. I think it's more than safe to assume that over time, the methods ships used to cloak themselves changed in response.
#6, that's not even worthy of arguing about. it's such a stupid point. Worf has had fun before blowing up stuff as well.
#5, I don't see how that's worthy of complaining about either. We have seen enemy characters in virtually every series contemplate how to destroy the protagonists.
#4, Trip gets himself into embarrasing situations? How about Captain Picard day? Or Worf with Alexander and the clowns on the holodeck? Or the countless episodes with Q trying to seduce Janeway? Or Wesley Crusher and his stupid attempts to get girls? Again, moot.
#3, is (you guessed it) moot as well. In every series, the protagonists have always had to deal with annoying people. The countless "starfleet admirals" in TNG and DS9 that were supposedly nice people but were just plain jerks. The annoying races Voyager had to regrettably deal with to trade supplies in the Delta Quadrant. Remember the Tac-Tac?
#2, I cite Mr. Spock's reactions to the behavior of his human crewmates in TOS.
#1, so what? he gets captured often. a key point to Enterprise is that it shows how much weaker humanity and starfleet used to be.
the crew can act immature at many times, but that's perfect, because it helps show how Starfleet has matured by the time TOS and TNG came around. The key point to Enterprise is Humanity maturing on the galactic stage. Most Humans at Enterprise's time still had only seen aliens probably once or twice in their lives. The few like Archer and his crew are still in the generations of future humans learning how to coexist and get along with other aliens. They're just Humans acting like normal Earth humans. The future humans in TOS/TNG/DS9/VOY are humans acting like normal intergalactic Federation humans.
Enterprise is not bad. It's pretty good. It appears that the differences between it and the other series being intentional is something you've simply misunderstood. The reasons you listed for disliking it are not exclusive to it; if you hate it for those reasons, you should likewise also hate every other series as well, because they've all had tons of inconsistencies and problems.
I've managed to rationalize most of the inconsistencies and non-believable plot points in Star Trek using deductive reasoning.
For example, Data can suddenly turn on/off his emotion chip in 1st contact, but he couldn't do that in Generations; and the writers never explain this, so it is up to us the audience to come up with our own rationalization. Now since there is a fairly substantial time gap between when Generations occurred and First Contact occurred, it is safe to deduce that Starfleet scientists had discovered a way to allow Data to toggle his emotion chip at will).