1. Telar had the term "Telari" associated with them previously in this RP. Since he had to reinforce "'Teleri' not 'Telari'" in the nation post since Telar was conceived, it means that this is a sensitive area for the nation.
2. You conquered the regions in the end, with an economic disability for just a while. Considering what you got in the end, this growth was positive. And furthermore, wouldn't the unification in this case be a failure since they lost? While on that topic, due to the nature of the unification, the aforementioned riots in this conflict are small because the regions still suffer from the "clan identity" since unification could not be achieved efficiently.
3. As I said before, these are not universal cases. Dudal would be a nonsense otherwise, but you got clay from it so it can't be all bad. But when a larger fish is introduced to your lake, you cry about it? The world is hardly explored. As a promise, there will not be any more major powers in the Third world. My plan from the beginning was two, unless a player is allowed to establish themselves there (This will become available in 1850).
4. I'm not completely sure why you think that this war is the complete end of you. I am aware that even all of united DIMA plus another DIMA on top of that would have hell in this war. I will not tell you why, but I know what forces we have added up in the belligerent forces, and it's insufficient to take over the UEK even in the worst case scenario for you. Furthermore, your protectorates are not rebelling—you just have isolated and individual cases of severe civil unrest. Most of your protectorates do not wish to comply because they see the use of force against an ally to be an untrustworthy act. They are not rebelling. The only act that Burellis and Telar have taken so far is attacking your colony so that you can't attack us from behind. Further combat operations have not been declared, and the motion on the DIMA floor is still pending.
5. I don't really understand why you should assume that sarcasm should even be used in a serious rp, but that's just my personal stance.
6. Mods to the map when they can. In my case, it's Saturday, and I just got lucky that I have some free time.
Due to the peoples vote, Wicherton surrenders and calls back its remaining forces. Its ranged forces stop its volley and walk shamefully back to Kirk.
So what? Do I become apart of Burellia? If I do, do I still control my nato- state?
You become part of Burellis as annexed territory. To answer your question, you control your country unless the nation is fundamentally changed from Wichertian culture. You cannot control military assets, autonomous trade assets, but you have slight control over the people who live there.