Author Topic: How I lost one of my best friends  (Read 2013 times)

Why did either of you bring it upon yourselves to have that kind of conversation in the first place.

I mean I know it's healthy to share opinions on serious issues but if you don't want it to come back on you for no reason then don't say it.
Some people cannot keep their mouths shut no matter how well you think you know them.
She brought it up, and I literally never said anything about "not believing in rape" like it was said that I did. Besides, friendly conversation between friends isn't something most people would condemn lmao

She spread untrue rumors and then claimed that I was in the wrong

so i removed the names again probably maybe

She sounds like a bitch. Unless you're lying about what you said, she's being a bitch. Explain it to them in person, over text/tumblr it's much easier for someone to be stubborn about their position. Don't elevate it, keep the moral high ground. (remain calm, don't be overly accusatory, use I statements e.g "I just feel that you misrepresented my position on these things, and made me out to be a bigot")

honestly its resolved as well as it can, just needed to vent to some people.



You did nothing wrong. They sound like a bunch of wannabe SJW's.



Yeah when the word "rape" comes around everyone considers it guilty until proven innocent.
Unfortunately this.
Anyway, she might not actually REALIZE how messed up her behavior is. Some people somehow manage to believe that all of society has wronged them, so it doesn't surprise me that someone can be this dense. Deal as best you can, explain to your best pal what happened, etc.
One of my pals has a girlfriend who apparently controls just about his entire life (if what I've heard is true). It worries me.


When I get in these kinds of hairy situations, I 'blank' people. I block all their accounts on social media and refuse to gaze upon them, meet their eye contact, or talk to them at all. Essentially, I subtract them from my own reality.

You should try it. I've done it three times and it's only had good results.

Innocent until proven guilty, keep spamming that and she'll learn to understand how this country works.

Also avoid controversial topics.


Wait how does someone doesn't believe in rape? Is rape a religion now or something?