Refer back to the polar bears
I've told you why that's an incorrect brown townogy, try again.
It's not at all like saying that, your tanks of gas alone do not kill the polar bears, everyones as a collective does.
You, alone, nobody else, is at fault. There is a clear cut answer to who is at fault, and it's the parent. Not even the child, cause he/she doesn't have a choice in the matter. You as a parent are forcing your will upon them.
Read up on US law. I am not neglecting my child, I am doing what I believe is right for them.
Just because you believe it's right doesn't mean it actually is.