yeah i mean i saw this whole thing coming with just the title, damn
i also kinda expected people's statements and it's kinda helped coming out. a lot is 'i dont like made up genders/ect.' which shouldnt be too relevant since im just a girl and not anything more (and dont intend to be tbh)
the other one is 'as long as you dont freak out/exaggerate/ect' which again, makes sense
if a trans person gets mad because you accidentally misgendered them then yes you have all the reason to be upset and avoid them. if its not that (on purpose or they weren't mad but spiraled into a bad mood) then thats a bit different
generally a lot of people seem to avoid trans people because of the sjw thing and even though i had acted like so in the past, i wanna stray away from that reputation and be generally more likeable. on that note; i apologize for that kind of act in the past and also wanna know what you guys think of me now, if you've seen any change