aww, i'm sorry we don't meet the level of special snowflake required to defy tumblr established concepts, really
it's more that people who
1. aren't qualified psychologists (teenagers)
2. have no experience with trans people or being trans (cisgender people and people who don't seem to have ever gotten to know a trans person before)
3. generally have no life experience (teenagers)
are establishing definitions for things regarding gender psychology
TIL a secret cabal of spooky tumblr skeletons are mindcontrolling america's top psychological professionals