am i a bad person for this?

[Headcrab Zombie]

We're you meeting as friends or bf/gf? You didn't really say but I'm assuming the latter.

I'm sure someone is going to come in here and yell at you for judging someone for their weight. But honestly, if you're not attracted to someone, then you're just not attracted. And it's hard to have a relationship with someone that you're not at all attracted to.

well i did kind of have a panic attack because i have social anxiety, so that was part of the reason i left. i never said goodbye. also, she did give me pictures, but she didn't look fat in them.

Pictures of someone else, old pictures, or just neck+up pictures?

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[neonfallout]

But no need to humor something that has no chance.

As a girl who was told she wasn't what someone was expecting, believe me it's for the best. She knows why you did it and she probably feels bad but she'll get over it. It's way way better to just cut it off than to drag it on at all.

[hillkill]

We're you meeting as friends or bf/gf? You didn't really say but I'm assuming the latter.

I'm sure someone is going to come in here and yell at you for judging someone for their weight. But honestly, if you're not attracted to someone, then you're just not attracted. And it's hard to have a relationship with someone that you're not at all attracted to.
Pictures of someone else, old pictures, or just neck+up pictures?

neck-up pictures.

[Foxscotch]

it's not about not being attracted to her
you just lied to her and left, then blocked her number because ???

try to make it where she can have absolutely no way to contact you. i hope you didnt give too much information out

and you're insane

[Headcrab Zombie]

neck-up pictures.

Yeah so she forgeted up them.
But don't just run away, or you're loving up too

[hillkill]

try to make it where she can have absolutely no way to contact you. i hope you didnt give too much information out

luckily i didn't. she only knew my name and number.

[Trogtor]

it's not about not being attracted to her
you just lied to her and left, then blocked her number because ???and you're insane

he doesn't want some obese chick its simple as that like im pretty sure any guy with some actual standards would do the same thing

[Nonnel]

you did the right thing. fat people are going to hell.

[IkeTheGeneric]

you just lied to her and left, then blocked her number because ???

Because he got catfished by a fat chick, it's not a totally wrong thing to be upset over.

OP the best thing you can do is contact her and tell her that you apologize and that she isn't your type. Be honest about your feelings

[Foxscotch]

he doesn't want some obese chick its simple as that

it's not about not being attracted to her

like im pretty sure any guy with some actual standards would do the same thing

any guy who was not raised by wild dogs would know how to act in this situation (that is, not like this)

Because he got catfished by a fat chick, it's not a totally wrong thing to be upset over.

this isn't catfishing

[Nonnel]

>not understanding social anxiety

[Frequency]

you did the right thing. fat people are going to hell.

amen 💪💪💪

[Foxscotch]

>not understanding social anxiety

"social anxiety" is irrelevant
he blocked her number. and then two weeks later, he pretends to feel bad about it, clearly still having her number blocked
he didn't block her because he was "SCARED", he did it because he's a richard

not to mention how ridiculous it is that you seem to think it's reasonable to be afraid of someone's weight

[Nonnel]

who said he was scared

[Foxscotch]

who said he was scared

y do I need to be responsible for making sure you read

i tried to talk, but was too paralyzed with fear to actually get real words out.