Now my current girlfriend (anniversary tomorrow) I met her on craigslist and we've been talking for about a week. So When I met her we eventually ran out of things to talk about. It just became the two of us hinting something but afraid to say it. So obviously I can tell she wanted to get physical but was shy. So what I did was I made the first move and made out with her, we then had love in an elementary school parking lot.
I knew from that moment if I didn't make a first move the whole trip would have ended in disappointment. You can only accomplish that from trying too hard or not trying at all.